I’ve been directing a show for 3 weeks, and have barely seen my wife, 8 year old daughter and 6 year old son. Saturday was my wife’s birthday, and I knew I was going to have two preview performances and barely see her at all. I got the dreaded call from my son early last week: Hi Daddy. I was just wondering if you were coming home tonight. I miss you. God, those are just heartbreaking. *sigh* Sometimes our schedules can be absolutely brutal on a family.
So, late last week I asked Jeanne to take Monday off school, plan on keeping the kids home from school Monday, and keep Sunday and Monday clear on the calendar. Then I asked her to pack for an overnight stay.
Sunday, after the preview performance, I drove home, picked them up, and drove 1/2 hour to Ann Arbor, where I had booked a room at Weber’s Inn. Of course, I didn’t tell them where we were going, so they were guessing the whole time. When Maggie asked how far it was, I told her “Under a hundred miles.” So they all decided it was between a one and two hour drive. Boy were they excited and surprised when I got off the highway twenty minutes later!
Weber’s was wonderful. It’s a great big fancy restaurant/hotel, with a gorgeous indoor swimming pool, hottub, sauna, game room…the works. Have I mentioned that my wife and kids LOVE to swim?
We got there at 6pm on Sunday, and swam for a long while, then had a great dinner. (For fun, we got an escargot appetizer, and YES we waited until the kids had tried them to spill the beans about what they were. Yes, it was just as funny as you’re thinking it would be! They kinda liked them, though, which was nice!) Then we went back to our room and, after the kids had a fun bathtime in the whirlpool tub, we fell asleep watching cartoons, all snuggled together on the big bed. In the morning, we swam a bunch, played games and had a blast. It was a ton of fun, our room had a patio thing that opened up right into the pool area.
Then, for her birthday, I had booked jeanne an hourlong massage at the Spa around the corner from the hotel. She had no idea, so we took her there (“Why are we here?”…”Just go give them your name and tell them you have a 10:30 appointment! We’ll pick you up in an hour!”) Then the kids and I did a little snacking and shopping (bought a fun card game for the family) before picking Jeanne up to go back to the hotel. Next, room service lunch on the patio, and a couple more hours of splashing around in the pool and hottub! Then, late Monday afternoon (I managed to get us a later checkout time than normal) we packed up and headed home because I had to hold auditions Monday night. On the way home, the kids were almost falling asleep in the car! A great little 22-hour adventure…wonderful to have the 4 of us do something different together, and just play for a day!
The bad news: I’ve not done that much swimming in years – I have muscles that are hurting that I’d forgotten even existed.
The good news: Because of the cold, they cancelled school on Monday! No lost day for Jeanne, no missed day for the kids!
Oh, the fun! Hopefully we made a few memories in there, for the kids. I know we did for Jeanne and me!
Sometimes you just need to take charge of your life. If you don’t, who the hell will?!